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March 21, 2014
April 11, 2014: I want a boyfriend, but I'm scared to go on a dating site. They're supposed to be safe, but I keep hearing horror stories about OkCupid and eHarmony and how all you meet on there are a bunch of creeps who only want one thing and aren't looking for a real relationship that might lead to something scary known as marriage. Then there's the whole "this person is evaluating me" thing. I start worrying about how I am perceived, which is silly because I'd be evaluating him, too -- just as closely as he's looking at me.