September 8, 2012
It's better to have a crush than be in a relationship. Why? You can idealize your crush. You can imagine that they're a stellar individual. You can envision how good they'd treat you. But when or if you get in a relationship with that person, you discover all their flaws. You discover things you never would have wanted to know. And you wish you could go back to the idealized vision you had of them back when you had a crush. Now that you're with them, you wonder why you even had a crush on them in the first place.