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May 12, 2011
There is a myth in romantic relationships that love is supposed to be made up of the same kind of sugar-spice-sustenance-of-life sort of thing. From youth, we dream of meeting our Prince or perfect woman. This soulmate will fulfill all our needs forever, and we will fulfill all of theirs.

Even eschewing the one mate for life notion, it seems that the myth of all sizes fit one in our relationships persists. I don't think that's realistic.

Differences have to exist. People differ. No one can be the same with one as they are for another.