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May 20, 2010
on the other hand, marriages don't always end up in the shitter, leaving both parties miserable. i've seen happily married 80 year olds, and 80 year olds grieving the loss of their spouse. i've seen several examples of long-married couples dying within weeks or months of each other. i read once in a book that soulmates die together. it happens often enough that we have a term for it in nursing: "swan syndrome," stemming from the notion that swans are one of the few animals that have one partner for life. swans, cavemen, and a few lucky old folks...