March 17, 2008
…And its not the question of kids that drives all this. It is the concept of you, of building a life together, where there is no possibility for you to feel that you are a guest in my house, because it is our house. That is what I want most of all. And yes, I must admit, terrifying though it is and unfamiliar territory on top of it all, I would like to have the option of considering whether or not we really want kids and being able to act on that choice, rather than not having a choice left.