March 20, 2007
when i meet people, at some point we share histories. i occasionally refer to my former lovers or my husbandís. it doesnít take long before the new friend realizes these lovers were not before my marriage but during. being polyamorous is odd when the accepted path is monogamy. my husband and i tried socializing with a poly group, but the only interest we shared was polyamory, which wasnít enough to form friendships. so now we try to make friends who share our other interests. those who become our friends canít really understand our ways yet luckily they accept us regardless.