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April 9, 2002
I continue to ponder his question. It isn't a question of belonging where, to what group, or to what clique, but of not not-belonging everywhere. Like one of those diagrams of overlapping circles, in the center section, where they all meet, inevitably the most intense color. That is where I want to be: at the core of it all, but not entirely of it all. Not to be limited or defined by a single aspect, but to share in them all.
Robert said I'd reinvent marriage if I ever found a man wise enough and foolish enough to marry me.