You give your family explicit directions to not contact you, then are raving and pissed when they do as you asked?  Because they didn’t magically know that you had exceptions to those directions, which you never articulated to them? Sorry, but that’s all on YOU. You just sound like a precious special snoflake who is amazingly self-centered. Having looked up your profile, all I can say is yeah, every word I’ve read from you betrays your privileged existence. I’ve never done it before but I’ve put you on Ignore. I can’t bear to read another word of your self-indulgent crap.