January 10, 2020
If you do something for someone else because you want to do it – the doing of it, or knowing it is done makes you happy, do it. If you do something for someone else in order to be appreciated by the other, you shouldn’t do it. And if you do something for someone else without them asking for it, and they say thank you, but for some reason you don’t believe they appreciate the thing enough – too bad, just accept the thanks you were given and move on. Don’t continue to make a big deal out of what you did.