June 27, 2017
Blaming. The scourge of humankind, the major reason for divorce, the cause of ongoing feuds. Simply put, when most people are unhappy or dissatisfied, their emotional energy seeks a target. And the target is usually the closest person to them. Is this a modeled behavior we learn? Is this an innate quest to deflect painful self accountability? Why not just walk away? Perhaps the inability to escape circumstances due to partnerships, obligations, age factors plays a role in blaming. Coming to the conclusion that I’d be happy if I wasn’t with you is a misstep in logic + habitual self denial.