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April 11, 2017
It's not nice to use someone as a negative example, as in, you look at their situation and think, "I am grateful to this person for giving me the perfect example of what not to do in life," and the people you use in this way would no doubt be crushed if they found out.

But if you do this, it's likely that your negative example has traits you see and dislike in yourself, and by working on them, you can possibly work to serve as a positive example for them, and you can both improve. That's what I hope.