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February 15, 2016
The worst thing is not having people think you stupid, but having them think you competent. If someone comes to you for advice, you are in trouble.

Probably the right and honest thing to do is to pull them aside at a convenient moment and tell them "Listen, you know I'm an idiot, right? You know I am only just barely holding it together and scared all the time?"

If the other person is also being honest, he will say that is exactly how he feels, and you'll agree it's best if we all suffer through our problems by ourselves.