January 20, 2016
Many married folks envy my independence. They tell me this with a bit of shame. Even my best friend, a well married friend revealed this. It's the road not taken. Then joy not available to them. Stan said the same. I was quick to point out this commonality. The problem with marriage is that you can't have it all. You have to chose the security and the predictability and the almost false loyalty over the adventures of singlehood. Singlehood looks so easy and in many ways it is. But there is a huge hole in the fabric of unwavering stability.