June 2, 2015
I did it! My financial adviser and two other friends have told me this two years: Go separate your joint accounts. And yet it felt like "pulling the trigger," like I was risking something by doing it. Now I'm seeing the value of change and perhaps, that if anything, it supercharged the relationship; which needed to happen. We'll see where it goes from here. I'm safe. I took my funds. Rules of MY road: hesitation is the warning whisper. Explore it! Sit and contemplate it religiously. Ask, what is the risk? Can supercharging be a solution? Change probably is best.