June 1, 2014
Former boyfriend visited me again. Talk of life's events since we were together in our twenties. We explained our relationships with siblings and offspring. Missing was talk about his wife. As if she doesn't exist. Not good. I said, when he comes back in September, I'd have THEM both over for dinner. He winced; said he'd rather it just be him. RED FLAG. I will not be party to his deceit. We are just old friends, nothing to be ashamed about, unless for him it's an escape fantasy. Probably. "Once the exit story has begun, there is no reverse button."