April 26, 2013
What does it mean when people would rather hang on to their anger than work out the problem? What is the purpose of the wall of silence? It must be the need for space. Or the fear of confrontation or the nurturing of self righteousness or the need of drama or the feeding of the ego or...something. I want the door closed, too, but there is still an aching desire to be understood and to mend this horrendous rift. Then, I could close the door and accept that we have grown apart with some dignity. Silence won't cut it.