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February 17, 2013
I have never been with anyone for whom I developed a "romantic" attraction after not having been attracted to him that way in the first place. The few times I went out with guys who were lovely every other way but who did nothing for me "that way", and then tried to convince myself that I could be into them despite not feeling it, have ended in disappointment for them because they thought something was going to happen and reaffirmation for me that I just don't work that way. Contriving an attraction, forcing it, is the complete opposite of romance.