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January 14, 2012
How other people act is out of your control. How you react to how they act is in yours. If you feel you need to allow someone's bad behavior to taint your experience, to hand the reins to someone with a negative attitude who for whatever reason is hellbent on spreading discontent, you're just as much to blame for the creation of the bad experience as they are. It's one thing to indulge a kneejerk response for a few minutes. but if you wallow and drown and flail around in someone else's nonsense, it's your fault. You have a choice.