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February 20, 2011
Sandra is telling me about self-defeating behaviors. She says she exhibits them in the winter months due to the lack of sunlight.

Sandra, I say, you seem tense. Let me make you a waffle. They are round and yellow, and will remind you of the sun. We will leave this coffee shop and go back to my place, and I will make you some waffles. They will get you started properly for 2011.

Now Sandra is angry at me for suggesting food as a mood enhancer, thereby enabling her self-defeating behaviors. She says I am not being helpful.