I often write about music. It's much easier to understand than everyday life. I you see the note on the stave, you know exactly what note you need to play. You rest when instructed, vary your volume when told. Real life is so much harder. What people say is not necessarily what they mean. You have to really listen to understand their true intentions, what they actually want you to do. Humans a a swirling mass of contradictions, each with an own agenda, never reading of the same hymn sheet.
If only they came with scores.